Insomnia is a terrible thing. You could not imagine how bad it is if you are lucky to get sound sleeping. I do not know why i will wake up in the midnight? Is it because the winter season or additive to the mobile phone too frequently. I think I have to do outside excercise like mountain climbing, hopefully i can get out from the currently terrible and aweful situation One more thing I can not eat wrong foods too, which I can not digest well. Feel sleepy at the daytime and feel alive at the midnight time, It is really really terrible thing. I have to avoid this situation happened again! Be good!

My little brother still single at the age of 32, athough I don't think it's a big problem in the current world. But my parents who are both farmers worried about that very much . And there are no any indications that he will try his best to get a girlfriend. We worked in the same city, so I always be asked to help him.  Unfortunately, we both don't have a big social circle as engineers.  So, I can't do anything except meet him and talk with him frequently as a friend.        He has a good education background and a good job.  He is a nice boy in general althouth he is introverted.  I know he still want to get a right girl as his girlfriend. But it's a difficult thing for an introverted engineer in a technical company.  And he don't want to get a girl to marry until he find his right girl.        Today, when I talked with my colleague I learned that one of her classmates is still single too. The girl looks nice and has the similar age, education back ground,  work experience and even we come from the same province.  Me and my colleague both happy about that because it is not common to meet two people with the similar conditions.  We think that there is a big opportunity for them to be the right people.  We exchange the basic informations of them and want to introduce them to each other.          I am exciting  to wait for their feedback, just like I was waiting for a girl's answer when I am still a boy.         I hope it will be helpful, athough I know it isn't a easy thing.         Best wishes to them.

Dear Li Juan

My whole family is excited about your visit. We
are eager to know how long you will be staying with us. As you know, you are
welcome to stay as long as you wish. We have a spare room for you and would
love your company. Don’t worry about finding my house, because I will pick you
up at the airport.

As you plan to come this summer, you should
bring a bathing suit. The weather is usually very hot here in summer, but you
can enjoy yourself in the Water Recreation Center near my home. I’m also going
to take you to other tourist attraction in Beijing, such as Summer Palace,
Great Wall and Forbidden City. If you are interested in the old city of
Beijing, you will definitely be fascinated by the small stores in Nan Luo Gu
Xiang, you can see two wheels vehicle by man, many of traditional Chinese foods.
Beijing Hu Tong as well, where you can taste typical Beijing snack and buy some
special local products, I’m sure you will have a lot of fun here.

I just cannot wait to see you

Yours

forever

Rosanna

Yesterday is the christmas. Are you have a good festival with your lover or friends. But it just a usual day for me. I seldolm celebrate a festival in my life. The birthday, valentine's day , wedding anniversary , nationday, and even the new year. And prepare a gift is a headache too. Festival is just means days of vacation for me. My wife angry with me for that for a long time. But she has been used to that now. I think that.      Maybe the festerval give us a good chance to express our love and friendship. I am no doubt that is a good thing. But why we have to do that in the festival. We can give a gift or have a romantic dinner with lover at anytime if we want. We also can play games with our children,  accompany with our parents and have a party with friends.  The best gift is the things what they want. It's a embarrassing thing to received a dislike gift. Of course, they may be shy to tell you what they want. But I don't think it's a big problem between family members and good friends. And we are not so poor and can afford a gift in the everyday life.      I am not a romatic man in my wife's words. And I am not good at finding what others want. That maybe an excuse for me to deny to celebrate festivals. And I don't think we have to express our love and friendship in festivals. On the contrary , we can do that everyday. A surprise may become a embarrssing thing . So, baby, tell me what you want. I'll take it to you. A gift or just a warm hug. Everyday is a festival.

My second child birth at the beginning of 2018. So buying a car became a topic in my family although I don't think it's  not so convenient as it seemed.   I take part in a driver training class and got my driver license in the end of 2018, because my wife want to buy a car and she don't dare to drive by herself at the beginning.      After is got my drive licese, I spend a lot of time to learn about the knowledges and want to select a suitable car for us in so many brands.  I almost find the right car for us in these days.  But we have a conversation about the necessary and cost of a car before we make our decision. That made us hesitate:      Why we want to have a car: Most people around us have had cars.The e-bike can't carry all the family out because of the second child's coming.It's a long distance from our home to my wife's office. Have a car will save more than a half time to get to her office.We plan to have more travel with the children in the future.      The weakness to have a carThe cost of keeping a car is expensive:  the cost to buy a car is about 150,000 yuan ; the oil for each year is about 10,000 yuan ; the assurance and maintenance fees is about 10,000 yuan per year; the cost to have a located parking space is 70,000 yuan.  And there are parking cost in the office or destination, traffic rules punishments and fines.  The total cost if more than 450,000 yuan if a car can operation 10 years ( 15,0000+ 10,000*10+ 10,000*10+ 70,000+ others cost =450,000).  It will cost us 45,000 yuan each year.  We won't cost so much if we go by a taxi.Because there are so many cars in the city now. It's not easy to find a parking space not only in my community but also in office and other place.  Most saving time will be spending on finding a parking space.It's not so difficult to take a taxi.  And driving is a tired thing especially for a long distance driving.     In general, it is not so necessary for a family such as us to have a car .   If we want to go out , just take a taxi.      Maybe there are somthing I missed.  Could you give me some advice?  should we will buy a car or not?      Thanks

“Do you have the time? Should we meet today?”
how come? You are in Beijing right now? I got a piece of message from Anita
this morning, I have used to her style like this after she has worked in Cambodia
for three years, we did not contact frequency like before, sometime one month
no any messages or information in between, even I was complain her please save
your energy for me and your family, don’t leave it for your money at all.

PRC’s 70th anniversary in China, there is many
flowers decorate on the street in Beijing, I am going to visit with my mom in
TianAnMen square at the day, Because of Anita’s invitation is always first, I
have to delay my mom plan, I understood her time is always money cannot say no
or tomorrow, otherwise she would be crazy to me.

I was so happy to know that the meeting was
also including An Yu and her husband, she is a little bit younger than me and
she is a beautiful and charming woman, she has a girl, we went to Xin Jiang
province for travelling with 10 friends including her family at 10 years ago.

Meeting is eating and eating is meeting, in
fact I hate eating, not bad, after big lunch, we went to hot spring and SPA, I
like it so much. For sure taking photos is one of important thing for the
meeting with Anita, I took my colorful swimsuit and my hair was so good from barbershop
just two days ago, I don’t like Anita’s short hair like a boy. An Yu has a full
figure and plump, just because of it, she is still charming.

We really have a good time, full of memorize
with my dear friends, It is nice to have you all.

    My daughter borned at the beginning of 2018, which is my second child. 

    Me and my wife both borned at 1981,  we still can have a child when the two-child policy came.My wife want the second child athough I know that isn't a easy thing. Both of us have our work , so it's not a difficult thing to support two children and we prefer to support them in a poor way.

    The big problem is how to take care the two children.  It's not easy for us to support all the family by one people to work. my work location has a long distance from my house, so I just  go home at the weekends,  my wife also have to get up early and go home late at night.  And we don't want to quit from our career as mid-aged men.  Our parents are over 65 and have bad health conditions, My father-in law even injured these day.  It will take 10 years for a child to go to school by himself. Before that, adults have to take care them , send and get them from school.   I don't know how can we operate it  if the parents is too old to help us taking care the children.

     These days, we get a nursey class to get the elder child from school in the afternoon besides my wife send him to shchool in the morning. Hope the parents is health enough to help us to taking care my daughter until kindergarten.  And I have to get a job near my home.  In that way we can take care the children by ourselves.

       We can't support two children without the help of our parents. Thanks a lot and hope they all have a good health conditions.

My daughter borned at the beginning of 2018, which is my second child.     Me and my wife both borned at 1981,  we still can have a child when the two-child policy came.My wife want the second child athough I know that isn't a easy thing. Both of us have our work , so it's not a difficult thing to support two children and we prefer to support them in a poor way.     The big problem is how to take care the two children.  It's not easy for us to support all the family by one people to work. my work location has a long distance from my house, so I just  go home at the weekends,  my wife also have to get up early and go home late at night.  And we don't want to quit from our career as mid-aged men.  Our parents are over 65 and have bad health conditions, My father-in law even injured these day.  It will take 10 years for a child to go to school by himself. Before that, adults have to take care them , send and get them from school.   I don't know how can we operate it  if the parents is too old to help us taking care the children.     These days, we get a nursey class to get the elder child from school in the afternoon besides my wife send him to shchool in the morning. Hope the parents is health enough to help us to taking care my daughter until kindergarten.  And I have to get a job near my home.  In that way we can take care the children by ourselves.       We can't support two children without the help of our parents. Thanks a lot and hope they all have a good health conditions.

As early as more than ten years ago, I stepped on the land of the most promising city, Beijing, in the northern China. Shichahai has been the most approachable and comfortable scenic spot. It is very near to the central axis of from Drum Tower to Qianmen, and also free to tourists. However, all my previous trips were spent in summer with gentle breeze and green tree, and no sightseeing took place in winter. Thus, I decided to try a different experience. The willow tree seemed to be dry and withered with dangling branches in the chilling air. On the distant stone arch bridge there was a little travelers. It unfolded a different picture from that in spiring and summer: heavy, gray and cold. I chose to stand against the rail of Wanning Bridge to take a full and front picture. It is a right and full picture of Jinding Bridge. Among many bridges in Shichahai, the most famous is Yinding Bridge, it quenched my thirst to pay more attention to other bridges for a long time. Different
from Yinding Bridge that ever ranked one of Small Yanjing Eight Attractions, Jingding
Bridge never took place until 2001 when a bridge was built in the eastern outlet
of Shichahai lake. Hou Renzhi, the professor in Peaking University, was
assigned to give a name to the new bridge. Considering the necessary to be popular
and align with the scenery of Shichahai, Hou advised to name the bridge as
Jingding Bridge, Jingding means “golden ingot”,which corresponds to Yinding (sliver
ingot). The setting sun crept over the tip of willow branch, setting off a bleak and drear picture in the royal garden. Many times, I marveled at how magnificent the setting sun in the Forbidden City, while I still felt another kind of grandeur here.

Job-hopping is always a constant topic especially at the end of every year, as usual, several colleagues will pursue their new career outside before the New Year of 2019. Of course, it is a good chance to find a new job after bonus collected in Jan, because, it can greatly minimize the loss after you join in a new company. To be frank, it struck me a little bit when I knew these colleagues would leave us, after all, we got together with each other for several years. I have to say, there are some unreasonable problems confused us a lot under current policy in company, unfortunately, the top management doesn't realize these even after the employees' representative bring the problems into the desk, our company is pretty small than other manufacturing, there are total one hundred and fifty employee, so the real top management is the general manager who would like to grab power in his hand closely, in a word, he would like to know everything happened around him. It causes the problem that the manager of each department dare not make any decisions without his permission. And the terrible problem caused is the managers have a few authorities in front of their subordinates so that the relationship is not harmonious between them.    I never expect this situation could be resolved completely, just follow up one of my colleagues said, if you can't adapt here working atmosphere, the best choice is to go away with any hesitation.