Have coat

It is getting cold after the rain. Absolutely, it is the time to have coat. I have my shirt with long sleeves from this week. Just last weekend, I had T-shirt. This trending speeds the leaves to fall down and more deciduous trees will have the autumn style by changing green leaves into red and yellow color. The enthusiasm of life never ends regardless of season changing. When I run, I feel cool by sweating on the way. At the first beginning, I sense a little bit cold, but I just feel the warmth from the heart beating and do not find it hard to move any more further as long as I want to run.I rarely have a cold. The main reason I assume is that I exercise regularly. And I believe the truth life really lies in movement. If you rest a lot, you terribly rust.


Hard choice

Recently, having a strong desire to develop a interest, so as to getting rid of upset, depression and low which come acrossed in life always and adjust mental health for purpose, we need a exit to pour out these emotion rubbishes, piano is one of the choices, had experiened a piano lesson in a adult training agency, nice environment and excellent teacher attracted me so much, there are two factors which make me hesitation now due to high surcharge and a little far away from my home as well. I am the persistent one once determined to do something indeed.


Harmful effects of divorce on society

There are many couples divorced around me, my friends,
my relatives; they don’t care other family members feeling by divorce. We can
see its everywhere including TV shows, the lawyer helps the divorce family trying
to be settle their house, children and all property in legally.

The parents divorced when the child is in elementary
school, this divorce disrupted the childhood in serious ways. Indeed, even
today it is difficult for the child to admit that their parents are divorced,
If divorce has so deeply affected one person, consider the harmful effects divorce
must be having on society as a whole.

The little girl woke from a nightmare. She ran to her parent’s
room to see her father so he could comfort her. Then she suddenly remembered
that he was no longer living with her. Her parents were divorced. She began to
shake and cry. Divorce has greatly affected this child.

One of my relatives was divorced when their daughter
at the school time, right now she has been graduated and worked for some years.
But she is afraid to marry; her personality is unsocial and refused to find any
boyfriends, her mother promised keep herself single in her life, so the divorce
has been changed their minds from the original. But for her father, even he has
married again with a younger woman, but for sure the divorce was bringing more experiences
in his life.

Of every four couples who marry in United States, one
will seek divorce. In some urban areas, the figure is even higher, as many as
half the marriage in Los Angeles area end in divorce. This means that there is
an increasing number of single-parent households and of children living without
one of their parents, Consider that harmful effects divorce seems to be having
on society.

One hundred years ago, an unhappy couple simply lived
unhappily or tried to work out their problems, Divorce was an option that was
never considered. Today, an unhappy couple easily decides that divorce is the
answer to their problems. However, consider the harmful effect these easy
divorces seem to be having on society.

Any society has many problems. The society in any
countries is no exception. Some of the problems that the people must deal with
are drugs, unemployment, welfare, and the generation gap. However, the basic
problem is the changing structure of the family, which causes an over whelming
number of divorces, Consider the harmful effects divorce is having on the
people in the world.


Have to pay 100yuan to be a member of Dioenglish for a new comer
The dioenglish is excellent platform for practicing our written English. All the members are the English learners or lovers. There are not many ads or other irrelevants contents here.  We can write down our life and thought with a blog or a mini blog, And we can share that with our friends here. I love it very much,  athough there are still have some problem.      I signed to be a member for many years, and I always recommened the Dioenglish to my colleagues and friends.  But I found they have to pay 100yuan to be a member for new comers now.  I know it's not easy to run such a website. But it's strange to be a number with money in China. After all, there are not too many contents have to pay for the copyright in the website.  The 100 yuan will keep a lot of English lovers out of the webset.  More members will help the website growing better.  Some ads is OK for me to cover the cost of the website.       There are more and more english lovers will want to be a member of the website according with the english studying upsurge.  A free membership maybe a better choice.  Hope the website have a better future and last foever.

Health recovery centre

The time was so fast, I have looked after a patient by
staying with Tiger in Health recovery centre for 10 days. Since He resisted the
operation for his waist, after we got the good advice by a very famous doctor, and
we don’t want to take any risks for the operation, even we knew some good
doctors or professors in medical field. So at the last, the conservative treatment
was the way at the moment we told after they read the reports from his unclear
magnetic.

Introduced by his sister, we came to Health recovery
centre where is located at the west part of Beijing, it is health resort near
the mountain, the place is not too big with a few buildings, a covered antique corridor
with a colourful painting, like a gallery, the different green pine trees
making is like a park, many of people can take the walk with long corridor, you
can see many of wheel chairs at the corner to take the sunshine from the
morning to the evening, very quiet to enjoying the sunset, it is really
beautiful place you can relax totally.

We lived a suite at third floor with two beds with the
sunshine, Luckily we are VIP guests as they said, order the dishes as per menu
one day in advance, at the next day the girl is taking the food to your room directly,
Like Room Service, very convenient for living there. Each shift of nurses would
come to your room say hello to each room before starting their works. Very curtsey
and helpful.

Tiger goes to the treatment centre for almost two hours
every morning and afternoon including Wax nursing, physical treatment, hot compress
bag and traction therapy, in order to get well soon, Tiger took it very
seriously and follow the instruction for each items carefully.

I was fully in charge his accommodation including his eating,
cleaning and sleeping during these days, I like calling myself a baby-sitter 24
hours totally. A common vision for us like him relaxing during the time. As we
all know it needs the time at least three months recovery smooth in bed as much
as you can, don’t be worry, there is no short tips for the separate part of body.

This weekend we have checked out the hospital, the
nurses and doctors were all very kind and good service they had, they all came
to see good bye to us and they were standing one side when we were leaving. I
am the hoteller, so it is a really five star hospital service I have never seen
before. We had a good time during my stay.


Heavy Haze

During the past week, we were suffering a lot due to heavy haze around us especially in the early morning, most of motorways were closed in the early morning in order to travel safely. What’s more, this kind of weather will last for the end of weekend according to the latest forecast so that I had to get up half an hour earlier to avoid traffic jam, it may cause by warm temperature, I am not sure whether it causes by warm temperature that doesn’t go against the haze dispel. I knew some kindergarten school even primary school already cancelled the morning exercises to reduce the exposed time in haze and also as temporary measure the government ordered some factories which caused air pollution temporary stopping production.Recently, as the increasing of air pollution and water pollution, the environment protection was put on the agenda, but how to keep the balance between economic development and environment was really a big topic in front of us……


Heavy Snow

As it is reported last night the heavy snow came on time as suddenly as the coming of winter. Just a couple of days ago, it was still not that cold. It is amost at zero degree right now. It is said to snow till tomorrow noon. Large snowflakes are dancing in the air, the white world is becoming quiet. This is the best gift for this winter.Apart from the tea and book, I look through the window and am fascinated by the tranquility and purification of snowing. That is amazing. Such kind of a sudden snow does surprise people a lot. Largely it does not ofen snow in winter. Most guys are over the moon. Kids are even ecstatically about it since they rarely meet that before. They do not care if their clothes are wet or not. With snow their happiness of childhood is just that simple and true.Now few guys are around the West Lake. When it ends, it would be another view of groups of tourists. Another live of moments on Wechat is on the way. We can not help uploading pictures of snow right there to share the exciting feelings and moments with friends.It really makes me easy and fully enjoy this weekend.


Helicopter parenting

Helicopter parenting describes a style of
raising children where parents were over protective and do too much. It
describes parents hover over their kids at home and at the playground like a helicopter.
Today modern technology allows these helicopter parents to hover from even far
away. They can give their children direction at any moment from anywhere.

Many authors have written books about how to
raise an adult: break free of over parenting trap and prepare your kids to
success, and how to see the checking list the students in the school, are they
are really good students with high score in the class? Why helicopter parents
is bad for your teen’s health.

Recently I am watching TV “A Little Reunion”,
it is talking about three families with high school students who will be going
to university entrance examination, One of family they are helicopter parents,
they force the kids study hard and study after the class, putting the end of
their interests, let the little hearts of them are less of hope for their
future, no communication with parents. Right now I am not talking about our government
education way is good or not, in most of parent’s eyes, the entrance
examination is the only way for the young students to open their career bridge,
that’s why they have to do many things are going beyond the limit to the kids. As
we all know that some of western countries have entertainment education, no
much home works for students, the parents are focus on their interests to train
as their friends.

I am so proud of my daughter she is smart and
very intelligent, during her school time, Tiger and I did not give her any
pressure for study, for sure I am not a helicopter parents and I believe she
had the happy and relax childhood till she became a post graduate student.


Here comes the rain

The rain started this afternoon and now it seems getting heavy. This is to end the smog for the time being and another round of temperature reduction soon comes after the rain. It could be the gift for the beginning of December. It washes out the dust and brightens everything. How fast it is. December reminds me of the new year 2019 which is about to arrive around the corner. Everything looks like extraordinarily normal. But there are still something we have to be ready. One of the most important things is to plan for the new year. The second one is to conclude what exactly we have done this year. If not, we just live everyday hit or miss. Everyday in the morning, I wake up from the twitter of the birds. They always sing happily. The noisy world is none of their business. It could be that simple. In the rain, they are hilariously holding a concert. I do not know where they hide in those trees but the singing tells me of their existence.


History As It Is

History in Oliver
Cromwell and Henry Ford ’s words and attitudes are opposite. Then who is right? Or better reasonable?Last December passing by a
water works on the bank of Huangpu River,I took a picture of water pipes for its water intake.
Again in March this year I took a same picture outside a water works on the
bank of Yangtze river. And then I told daughter. A drinking water engineer, she
asked: “Where? Let’ me see. They’d let
you know the site to take in the water now in use?”