Group living

I visited the relatives with Tiger for a few days in
Zhan Jiang, everyday eating was the main points from the morning to the late
evening, entertain us as the guests, Actually I don’t like the life like this so
much, to be respect I had to show my artificial smile to others. In fact my
heart had been flying to Hai Nan of my friends.

Jiang Li my good friend, she bought the house in Lin Shui
of Hai Nan province, five of us were invited by her and her husband kindly in this
cold winter for two weeks, luckily I was in Zhan Jiang, it was not too far to
be there, so I can fly to her directly after my own business.

Lin Shui is a famous place to invest house for North
part people, due to there is a beautiful seaside and not too many people yet,
it is the county, to be there I have to go by train. Social network has had a
very positive effect in our life, the tickets by air and by train were all
settled in the smart phone just one bottom in advance. LiLi and her husband
picked me up in the station on time, I was so moved when I saw her, I felt
finally I found out our team.

Four of them have come to Lili place one week ago; I
did not how they lived and how to have the meal together, I thought they may
rent an apartment in the same community, even I knew LiLi is a so kind and
honest to her friends always, to my surprised, all of them were eating together
at her home and living their friend’s apartment by free. Due to the new house
did not open water yet, all of them took the shower in LiLi’s home one by one and
day by day, How come? The hotel nearby is very convenient including the
breakfast, the room rental is reasonable I checked, why don’t they live outside
instead of bothering the trouble to LiLi, If I were LiLi I cannot accept it
even my relatives. So the first day I came, I had very rude suggest to every
one of the friends. Should we move out to the hotel for the following days? No problem
I can pay the room of hotel.

LiLi for sure did not agree my idea and insisted leave
it like this politely. Even other people agreed my action wanted to pay
afterward by 1000 each for the compensation, I had to accept and starting our
group living for following days.


Grow everyday

Not everyday goes well as we planned, but it does not work badly if we have the full preparation for what might happen. By doing so, we think it confident to conquer whatever we meet. Sometimes we are fragile and we are desperate to require the comfort to console the soul. Therefore we need to be ready at any time. Not a single moment could be easily wasted. Since life is so short.Most of the time we may be wondering and having no idea what we should do and what exactly we want. This is normal and we all have that tough time to come through.Do not be sad and do not be overexcited, things are just fine which are usually neither so good nor so bad. It does not mean we tend to be a cold-blood person, actually it has the high quality which needs us to master the smooth mind and cultivated behavior.Everyday is the in the course of self-training. We meet lots of things and undoubtedly we are easily to be involved in various kinds of temptations. We definitely have to sharpen eyes. The tough thing is some of those potential risks and unexpected things can not be detected and recognized by naked eyes. Then, what should we do?To read more books, to meet more people, to experience as much as we can. Only by doing this do we realize how to judge and analyze. We won’t be kids anymore. We grow to be more mature. Time tells of the achievement we made.Do what we can, change what we ought to have to do. Every bit of move makes to be great one day. You can not rely on the good result which comes out in a short time. As a matter of fact, it costs much time and consumes us energies to wait it out.


Gtime fitness centre

I was invited by one of my friends Hai Yun to Gtime fitness
centre with my friends yesterday. The location is in south east of Beijing, it
is quite far from my home, I looked up BaiDu map before I left, how can I get
there? I prefer green outing, so By subway or by Bus? Both are at least taking
more than one hour.

We made the plan to meet at 1am clock after lunch; Hai
Yun was afraid me to lost my way and She would pick me up at bus station. Unfortunately
I was waiting the bus almost 20 minutes later at the starting station, even
there are so many buses passing by except my bus. You know I am a punctual
person since my school time. I had few to be late for any appointments, unless
there must be some strong reasons. finally I was afraid to be late, I took the
taxi immediately.

Surely I was 30 minutes early than others, I came in
the fitness first, it is quite big fitness centre I have seen before with
semi-underground, The logo of the name in bilingual language was so attractive.
Gtime-吉刻 I
like the name because it is simple and perfect, the meaning on my understanding
is Don’t hesitate, Just do it. I was following one staff to each function rooms
and told me how to using facilities one by one professionally, I knew it is
their job for any new comers.

I can not wait to do the excise first till my friends
coming, all machines are quite new and update with individual TV which is continent
to kill the time on the machine for sportaholic, and many of people in different
ages were interacting on the machine. The swimming pool is not so big but just
next to the room. Group of people were busy learning swimming with their coach concentrated,
seems nobody cared who you are, only focus them.

After my friend was coming, for sure we were happy to
see again since last meeting in Hai Nan, we used our own way to chat for a
while in a low voice, taking the photos in any corners must be our issues for
any gatherings. Unluckily I forgot to take my swimming suit, Hai Yun who are my
dear would like to go back her home to take her one. Why I love them all, because
if anyone of us has a problem at the anytime, they would like to give you fully
supports at once,

The friend in need, is a friend indeed. This
is my point of this blog.


HOW IT FEELS TO BE A DAD

How time flies ,my daughter has now 2 years old.As a dad I enjoyed much more joy than I suffered sorrows.No matter how tired I am I feel full of energy as long as I think of my litter girl.I work more harder in order to give her better environment.I keep on reading and studying in order to set a good example for her.I become fascinated with visiting shopping websites in order to come across with surprising gifts for her.Deep in my heart I feel I am totally changed.I am willing to sacrifice everything to make sure her happiness.Perhaps I am not wealthy enough however I can accompany her as long as I can .Perhaps I am not wise enough however I can grow up together with her.In a word I will love her in my own way.I will always love her till the end of my life.


Haha

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Half year

Section one:Pouring down, it is cool. Yesterday, it was too damp to breathe. Now it comes to be comfortable to feel free breath. The big rain, particularly in summer, is a nice way of test on the drainage system. Every city more or less has to confront this problem. The civilization based on the concrete construction has its disadvantage. Sometimes it is even more fragile than we have thought. Usually in hours of heavy rainfall, it will flood roads and streets. Engines of vehicles are likely to fail when it comes to pondings, traffic paralyzed and garbage washed into everywhere. Compared to the rain itself, the disaster of urban water logging afterwards is more severer and destructive.Section two:The second half year is about to begin. How fast it is. If there was no plan, life goes to be boring. Though so many things we have to deal with, it does not hamper us from pursuing happiness. A better tomorrow does not only rely on the material life, but also the quality in mental. To spare some time on something we like is just that way to improve our life. Reading, workout, diet and rest are the priority on my list. By insisting on it, I have found that I tend to be considerate. I am not easily to be impulsive, instead, I become reasonable and sane knowing how to steer the direction to life journey. That is totally different than what I was before. It teaches me and I appreciate it greatly.


Happy Birthday

Yesterday July 29 was my birthday day. One month ago I
was looking forward the day coming, how could I spend my day? What kind of gifts
I can receive from my friends or my family? Hopefully some surprises or miracle
coming to me at the day.

Tiger asked me what kind of gift you want at two weeks
ago, I know he loves me, he was not a pincher at the day to buy something for
me. He never asks what I bought from the internet or shopping mall, only if too
many packages delivery to my home, He might say, please don’t blind to spend
money.

In fact I really want an unmanned plane or a lap top, anyone
at lease is over 10 thousands, I know it is more expensive for the gift, an
unmanned plane is not so suitable play in Beijing, due to many places are forbidden.
And I have desk top and I pad, which can instead of the lap top I think. So forget
those two. I had a crystal bracelet at the long time ago, but it was broken and
hard to fix, maybe I can buy another one for myself. The price is within 300
yuan, can accept, Yes it was good I like it. I buy my birthday gift for myself,
even Tiger has promise to pay later.

The day was Sunday, for sure my family was all in Pan
Shan for weekend, because of my birthday, so my daughter was also coming for
the celebration, her gift for me was a dark red skirt with pockets, she knew
what I like. My nephew was the same day of birthday with me, so every year of
day we have the meal together with his family for the celebration. I was so
happy when the candle was lighting and all of family people were singing birthday
song to both of us.

After back to home after the big lunch, other surprise
to me, a fresh flower Lilies and Roses, Tiger bought the flower for me on the
way home, He was not a romance guy, but today I just tell you here today, he is
the one, I love you Tiger. I love you my daughter, I was so spoiled by my
family, right?


Happy Chinese new year

Chinese New Year eve is the most important day in a
year, the day is the family get together, no matter where you are, everybody
wants to go back home and sitting in front of parents and relatives have an
evening dinner. That’s why a lot people just for the day, working overtime
before the day, trying to finish the all the work. Many stores have to be
closed by nonlocal bosses and back home as early as they can. Overseas Chinese
booked the return tickets at the half year ago. All just for catching the day
of Chinese Eve.

Luckily I am local here, and most of my relatives are
all in my city, so I don’t need to think about ticketing booking before the
holiday. This year it was my turn to take care my father in low. Because of the
last year his brother was in charge. I knew A Yi she must be go home during the
holiday, so I had to find somebody instead, otherwise I cannot image How can I take
care the old man 24 hours personally, I am lack of patient even my mom.

Anyway new A YI I have found the one by accident. She
is from Dong Bei province, she is a easy going person, She is working in Beijing
to the baby sister more than one year, she is just absent at the holiday, she
is willing come to my home, just as it happened, This new AYI is a really qualify
assistant and good at cooking. On the working day she is easy motion, general
good character, what I told her, she can remember my point clearly.

At the day of eve, as traditional Chinese way the
family has to go to man’s house, maybe the man is the king of family. So after
I married I have no chance go to my home at the eve. This year luckily after
big lunch with tiger’s family, we were allowed go back our own home for the
golden evening. A Yi gave us a lot helps for prepare the eve dinner. This year
the same day of the beginning of spring, spring pancake has to have at the day,
so she made it instead of dumpling, There were BBQ big prawn, pork knuckle,
lotus cake and fried fish, what I liked was Rio which is kind of drink, the advertisement
by pop star Zhou Dong Yu recently

So this year eve evening I was so happy with my family
at my own home, hopefully every year I can have the same year eve.


Happy birthday to my son!
How time flies!  It comes to July 15th,2019. My little son is already 2 years old  today. As a birthday gift, Grandfather buys him an electric motorcycle. He really likes it and he is happy today. To tell the truth, he is happy every day .        Suddenly I realize that happiness is a simple thing. In our daily life,we always worry about little things. It is a waste of our life to focus on what we have lost. We should always think of  what we have. So , I want to tell you ,my boy, your whole life would improve not just because of having a new car or getting something new. Remember that happiness is in your heart, it is a state of mind, Even though you own the whole world, you may still feel unhappy.         During the rosy years of childhood, I hope you can enjoy the  beautiful days. Because in the following days,  there is not always sunny days, you will face difficulties, troubles and challenges ,which are the treasures  in  your life.. Don't worry about it. That is what life really is. No matter how old you are, master the art of appreciating and taking pleasure in what you really have , Mother believes, happiness will always be with you!         At last , wish you a happy birthday! Have a good dream!                                                                                                 

Half a Year

“Only half a
year left,” friends and family advised. Half a year? How many ten years do we have in a lifetime? How many years
are there within ten years? And how many
half a year in a year? And how many months in half a year? Half a year can be critical on some occasions. The days of the Three Big Battles during the War of Liberation in late 1940s put together did not last more than half a year. In retrospet, in half a year my study from almost
scratch of mathematics, physics and chemistry enabled me to be lucky enough for an admission for a university. I also remember the time as a senior when I listened to the broadcast music
lectures for half a year before getting an award for its music knowledge contest aftermath. If time is money, then penny foolish, pound unwise.