I introduced a girl to my little brother and urge him to do more communication with the girl.  But my little brother angry with my behavior and feed back the words to me: Do I need you teaching me how to live?  What do you think if I want to change you in some aspect with my mind?      Yes, he was right. I don't want other people to change me.       We born in a democratic family.  We choose the way ourselves and stand all the racket by ourselves. So, we seldom regret for any decisions because we'll choose the same way followed our mind if there is another chance.  We choosed our university, major, work location, our career and wife by ourselves.  We are happy for that because that is our life.        I think the greatest advantage of the current world is that whe can live individuals withe the support of modern city function institutions,  Such as banks, shopping malls, hospital, shools, old people's homes and so on.  We don't have to live in a certain group and keep a relationship such as family, village, or a company  in order to support our life. So  we can get the most freedom in the current world although there are still some compromise.  We can pursue our life without caring other peoples words.  We don't have to be great , famous or be a sucessful man in other people's view.  What we need to do is find our real happiness.       That's the life of ourselves. Don't want to change others and want do that for me, Even between the family members.         Let us select our way.  You can't do that for me.

Dragon Head-rising up is Lunar of second day in February.
After this day the people can go to Barber shop having the hair cut, people all
said that if you do the hair cut within the first month of lunar year, your
uncles will die because of this. So nobody wants to have any complaint from
relatives, as the time passes, the people are following the rule including me.

Yesterday was after this special day and I was not busy,
I wanted to make up my hair in dark brown colour as usual to cover some white
ones. So I went to a barber near my home. You know I have my long hair for many
years, I am so confident for my hair due to it is heavy and strong then others,
that’s why I am looking more younger, hehe, I said to myself always. I went to
the barber only a few times a year, I did not know which shop is good or not.

I entered the barber after my breakfast, I was so
happy to see there are only two customs and two service boys, I thought I did
not wait for long time for sure. Can you come here this afternoon if you don’t
mind? one boy said. Even his voice was so polite but I was refused by them I
felt, I was shocked and answered him immediately, ok got it, I would go to
other shop next to you, my response was also respect and determined. You know this
shop I will not come again in the future, because I felt I am not so welcomed
by them, they will be lost one of potential clients. If the boy let me have the
seat first I can understand even I hate to waste my time, in fact, only the boy
said one word just casually, but the oblivious transfer to my mind, I believed
his boss who was starting up the business was so sad to lose the business at
the pressure of the investor.

I have read an article that said a painter rented a courtyard in the countryside at the foot of the mountain and costs 4000 yuan to buy 20 years of usage. After simple renovation he moved into the cottage that is inside the yard and lived a happy and leisurely life.It gave me a leap in my heart after reading the article. Is this the life that I want? Stay away from the noise of the city and go into nature, and have the life of “Picking chrysanthemums under the bamboo fence, Looking to the Southern Mountain leisurely.”A company in my hometown guesses the thinking like mine. They launched a project to satisfy people who want the life in the countryside. Costing 100 thousand yuan to buy a plot of land and cost 50 thousand yuan to build a cottage on the plot. Then moving in the cottage, you will realize your idea soon - planting on the plot and eating the grains and vegetables yourself. We can lay on the bed, look up to the moon through the window and count the numbers of stars in the sky. It is a very romantic scene, isn’t it? In fact, this is merely a dream. It may seem impossible to come true. Because my family won’t agree with me to carry out the absurd plan at all. I am a retired man now and my healthy situation is not very well. I will encounter all kinds of difficulties in my existence if I live in the countryside. I probably have no ability to plant the plot myself and harvest grains from the field, like an old farmer. I can’t adapt to the living environment that has no telephone, TV set, and Network. How can I go to hospital to see the doctor if I am ill? If my daughter comes back to see me, would she live with me in the countryside? So the dream is only a dream, but the life is truth. Life wouldn’t let the absurd plan to be a reality.It is not necessarily to satisfy these conditions on geographical environment to fit retired people’s requirements such as peaceful and quiet life. We also have access to get these life conditions in the city. So we mentioned that the peace and quiet is more of more of the old people’s own mentality. If you keep the calm in your heart, you will have a leisurely life, even if you live in the center of city. Corrected by Teacher Chawee

Two weeks ago was my daughter’s birthday, I checked
with her what kind of birthday gift you want this year. As you know every year
of the day, we prefer to buy one gift which is very useful and more valuable,
on the one hand to helping her life easier, on the other hand to make her
happy.

She sent me message by wechat, she wants to change one
bigger washing machine, she sent me the link of item, wow, and washing machine
cost is at least 5 to 6 thousands, I know her machine is pretty new and nothing
wrong, how about the old one? No enough space for two machines at her
apartment, I have one child in my family, since each of her birthdays we tried
to satisfied her need, but this was really to my surprised, I had been kindly
refused her request, I asked her politely, could you change other one instead,
due to the current machine can be still used. My daughter was so understand and
said, May I ask for a Dyson hair dryer? I thought the dryer could be no
problem, ok I said immediately.

I see Dyson is a very famous brand of England. Recently
years Dyson products have been into Chinese families gradually, I have a Dyson
cleaner wireless which is very popular right now, which is breaking the old one
with long wire and big noise. After I checked the price of dryer, the cost is
about three thousands each, surprised me, One dryer is cost a lot, but how can
I refused her again at the birthday, I called her warmly, let me asked you one
question before I bought for one, how often you can use it? You have no long
hair, every morning you curry up for work, I believe you don’t have much time
for your hair on each day, so it is not good one, I did not mention the price
is a little beyond my budget.

She kept silent and said nothing, I knew she was very disappointed,
but she has to know my point is reasonable. The birthday was coming, I told the
thing to Tiger, He was totally agree my suggest. He transferred money to her
account in cash instead of the gift, Money is only a number, tell nothing, I
know she must be complain my action.

At the last week, I went to a barber for my hair, the
hairdresser was using a Dyson dryer for me. It is so elegant with some
different function of heads. He told me I was the first guest using new Dyson
dryer, this was my first time to see it, I thought that’s why my daughter like
it so much.

I promised I will buy it for her at next birthday to
cover my regret.

Do you ever feel the fear of abandonment by your
family, friends and your spouse? What’s your feeling?

I was busy with Tiger recently, and I have no much
time study EF English for two weeks. As usual I must be one hour a day at least
on line learning EF. I knew my EF account is about expire in this month, but I cannot
remember which day is exactly, I was happy to my efforts from 7 to 11 level in
a year, so far only one unit left to level 12, I want to catch it quickly in
the limitation time before complete the course. I was a little worry I hope I
will able to make up all I missed by being absent.

This morning I was full of enthusiasms to wearing my head
set earring phone and closing my door for study only, I was afraid by anything
to disturbing me, But I did not know why I cannot log in my account? There was
a test window let me key in process number, how come? I have never such
information during this year, I contacted my teacher in wechat immediately, I
know if I contact him by phone, even I could get feedback right away, but maybe
it was not so polite. He gave me a hotline number, meaning was he put my
question to others, I thought it was not so difficult problem, I felt no so
good at first, but anyway I followed him to check, the answer was I have to get
the process number from my teacher, not from others. I called him again angrily.
On my understanding was all teachers from EF are very kind and keeping smiling
face always, although I was an on line student I go to the training centre not
quite often, but I have joined some classes and I have seen some teachers
before, they are willing to help others. But in fact it was not.

He was impatient to tell me the completion of the test
is only for face to face class, it is not including on line students. But I got
the answer from hotline was not, the test should be including all the students
no matter you are on line or in face, even he promised me to double check again
for me. I was so disappointed that I was abandoned by my great EF in my heart, I
was with you for a year, I love you so much, that’s why I avoided any negative issues
at all the cost to with you, at last, making me so lost. Nobody remind me
before expire of the account, maybe if anyone to tell me I could renew my
account.

Anyway, the time to say bye to EF, I will continently
study my English forever, but not in EF this platform for sure.

Today is the last working day in the year of dog. After turning off the computer, I went back. On the way home, the wind was warm and I did not see many guys. It was sunny in the day and warm enough to feel that spring would be coming soon. For me, it is normal to enjoy on this holiday. Time is limited, so I do seize every moment to make full use of it. I have prepared well for the Kindle that I have downloaded e-books then I can read in the coming days. The more I read, the tinier I feel I am. Interesting, I really did not know that. Now I feel it is truly correct. Have fun.

How time flies! Half of the summer vacation is over. I was troubled by my two children’s illness the other day. Fortunately, with the care of us，the two babies have recovered . I am really relieved now. Today is a rainy day . My husband went to work early in the morning. We had soybean milk and deep-fried dough sticks for breakfast. I spent a wonderful time with my two children today. We sang, danced and played games together in the morning and slept for two hours at noon. For dinner ,we had eggplant stuffed dumplings . They are delicious! My daughter and my husband ate a lot of dumplings, they enjoyed them , completely. At this moment, I feel very happy. I have two happy and healthy babies, one is six years old and the other is three. For us, they are angels. My husband is not a very handsome man . He is tall and strong, who is two years younger than me, but he is a responsible man. Since we are married, he has been protecting me and our two babies. We are devoted to each other and seldom quarrel. We have a happy family. Time is short and unfortunately we are all getting older. There may never be a better time than now to live a meaningful life with our parents and kids. From now on, I’d like to catch each opportunity to accompany my parents and my babies. I will share my experience,achievements, joys and moments of pride with them. I hope we can enjoy ourselves every day in our whole lifetime.

People might think that big things should be done to save the earth. Many forget that saving the earth begins with small things. For example, we can save electricity by turning off the lights when we leave a room. We can also use reusable bags instead of plastic bags. I think it's a good idea that we now have to pay for plastic bags in some stores. And instead of driving to school or work, we can ride our bike or walk. If it's far, we could take the bus. In this way can we lead a low-carbon life. All these small things can add up and become big things that would improve the environment. Let's take action now.

March is a good month of the year, Spring will be
coming soon, the sunrise is coming early in the morning than cold winter, all
plants and trees are willing to say hello to every one after it has long
sleeping soundly, My life seems going to normal after busy February, even Tiger
still needs to have a good rest in the bed for his waist, but at least he can
take the walk slowly.

Since we made the decision to cure the conservative
treatment for his waist, after we went to health centre hospital for almost two
weeks, we have been told there was an essential oil can be warm when sprinkling
to your body, I followed the instruction for him every two times a day. There
is a kind of electric Wax bag has the same principle to be hot to stick on your
body, I bought it from the Tao Bao, as long as these are no harmful I am
willing to try for him. Hopefully he can recovery to be original.

I haven’t made the meeting with my dear friends for
quite long time, although I was invited by many times including shopping to Bai
Rong, where is one of my favourite shopping mall, we had the plan to buy the
same uniform for the next outing, a pity it was only missing me at amount of
them. There was one appointment of my friends to Xie Island even the weather was
not so good at the day, but I concerned them all the time and I did kindly
refused, because of I was busy with Tiger, I did not want him feeling lonely at
home when he needs my helps.

Now life is getting to the normal almost, Tiger wants
to Study English at EF like I did in the past, I am so happy to encourage him
to learn English no matter where he choose, I can say the life is beautiful
with the sunshine boy and girl.